The Glocal Controversy {EGY-TRI -TABOO Prelude}

 







Introduction

There is an endless supply of advice, tips, and tricks on how to build relationships with others. Self-help and human development books fill entire sections of bookstores, each claiming to hold the secret to connection. Yet, some topics are best left untouched, for the sake of peace or social survival.

I once told a group during my travels that it’s best to avoid the “Tri-Taboo”Politics, Religion, and Sex.
It’s almost a universal rule, accepted globally as a way to sidestep potential misunderstandings or heated debates.

But then someone replied, “Well, you won’t talk about anything then.” And that made me think—are these taboos truly everything in life? Perhaps not. But they certainly make up everything that defines life.


The Art of Avoidance

To stay on the safe side, we tend to talk about harmless things: weather, colors, recipes, and the latest trends in media. Yet even these neutral topics can lead back to something controversial—like the rising price of food or the politics of agriculture.

In Egypt, the default is to stick to the safe and simple—“How delicious is that dish?”—while ignoring the socio-political rot simmering in the background.


Democracy: A Word We’re Not Ready For

Let’s say it outright: Egypt is anything but democratic.
Some voices—political or not—have long questioned whether Egypt is ready for democracy. From my perspective, they’re 100% correct: we are not ready. Not now, not soon.

Why? Because we were not raised in a democratic culture. We were never taught to think or act as democratic citizens. This cuts across all social strata—rich or poor, educated or not. Democracy isn’t about slogans; it’s about practice, and practice requires values.

Schools and universities love to sell the image of open debates and freedom of expression. But in reality, it’s a performance—a glossy show for media coverage. Beneath the façade, students and youth remain trapped in a culture that fears dissent.


The Normalization of Corruption

Corruption is not a hidden phenomenon in Egypt—it’s a lifestyle.
We all know it, we all see it, and yet, we normalize it. It’s in how laws are bent, how equality is reinterpreted, and how social relationships justify unethical acts under the banner of “everybody does it.”

Those who resist these norms often become outcasts. Corruption becomes not only tolerated but expected. It’s even masked with the language of religion or moral superiority. The irony? The louder the moral preaching, the deeper the corruption usually runs.

In this environment, corruption is not the exception—it’s the rule that keeps everything working.


Sensitivity and Silence

Talking culture in Egypt is an art form of avoidance. People steer clear of “sensitive topics”—but what isn’t sensitive in this context? Everything connects to something else, which connects to something dangerous.

So, most people choose silence. Silence to stay safe. Silence to avoid being misunderstood. Silence to protect whatever illusion of stability remains. Everyone has their justification, and everyone pretends to be content.

Yet, beneath all the chatter, Egypt is a country that talks endlessly but says nothing.
People chatter, gossip, and debate trivialities—but rarely confront the issues that truly matter.


The Taboos and Power

Each taboo—politics, religion, sex—is woven into Egypt’s power structure. Politics shapes who speaks and who remains silent. Religion sanctifies social hierarchies. And sex—the most forbidden of the three—reveals everything about power, dominance, and hidden desires.

Sex, in particular, remains buried under layers of hypocrisy. It’s condemned publicly yet consumed privately. It’s weaponized in moral discourse and censored in conversation. Its silence speaks volumes about the tension between repression and desire in conservative societies.


The Culture of Trivial Conflicts

Interestingly, Egyptians love conflict—so long as it’s trivial. People argue over small matters while ignoring the deeper injustices underlying their frustrations. These petty fights serve as a safe outlet, a distraction from real issues like corruption, inequality, and identity loss.

In a sense, people are fighting symptoms while ignoring the disease.


Survival and Self-Deception

Maybe all of this—the silence, hypocrisy, and corruption—is just a survival mechanism. A way to keep breathing in a suffocating system. The smart ones learn how to adapt, conceal, and survive.

This doesn’t mean Egypt is unique in its corruption; other nations have their flaws. But the degree of normalization here—the cultural acceptance of corruption—is exceptional.

In a corrupt system, people with genuine values are rare. They are tested constantly, and most fail. Yet, paradoxically, the same society is full of “teachers of words”—people who speak of ethics but live in contradiction.

That’s why Egypt is, unmistakably, a corrupt country with poetic excuses.


Conclusion: Talking Without Talking

In the end, Egypt is a country that talks all day long—about everything and nothing. Conversations flow endlessly but never reach substance. Taboos dominate, sensitivity reigns, and truth hides behind humor and irony.

Perhaps, silence here is not just fear—it’s exhaustion. Because if the Tri-Taboo defines everything in life, then maybe to speak honestly is the final act of rebellion.


References 

  • Armbrust, W. (2019). Martyrs and tricksters: An ethnography of the Egyptian revolution. Princeton University Press.

  • Mitchell, T. (2002). Rule of experts: Egypt, techno-politics, modernity. University of California Press.

  • Said, E. (1978). Orientalism. Pantheon Books.

  • Al-Ali, N. (2018). Gender, activism, and the Egyptian revolution: Everyday stories of resistance. Zed Books.

  • Transparency International. (2023). Corruption perceptions index: Egypthttps://www.transparency.org/en/cpi



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